Why Robberies Increases Around Christmas

The months leading to Christmas are normally filled with joy. They are also filled with lots and lots of shopping. It is a time of the year when people dig into their wallets and buy those they love gifts to show their appreciation. There are also all kinds of holiday discounts which give people even more incentive to shop away.

It is a jolly time of year. However, it is also a time of year when a certain crime greatly increases. Robberies dramatically increase during the Christmas shopping season. Having cash, purses, and bags full of gifts stolen are devastating happenings that ruin holiday cheer.

When people shop during the Christmas season they often get a type of shopping tunnel vision. This means that they are really not paying much attention to what's going on around them. Unfortunately, this means that if a person is robbed during this time they will probably be caught off guard and will not have time to react.

There are a number of reasons why this crime happens a lot more often during the holiday season. First of all, stores are carrying a lot more cash in their registers than at other time of the year. A store might not be a typical target for some burglars but during the holidays knowing that there is more cash in the store will make some robbers change their patterns.

People also carry more cash during this time of year and of course there are lots of people walking around with expensive items in bulky bags. At this time of year burglars become more brazen in their crimes. They are more likely to openly grab bags and run, even in crowded places during the daytime.

Criminals also steal items out of cars more often at this time of year. This is simply because they are more likely to find bags of gifts with expensive items in them. By breaking in a car window or prying open a trunk they can get a away with hundreds if not thousands of dollars worth of goods.

Another reason that robberies increase at this time of year is desperation. This is a time of year when people who have never stolen before may commit the crime because they are desperate. They may want to get their hands on expensive items because they need money or because they want to be able to provide their own kids with gifts.

It is important to be aware of your surroundings. You don't want to have your holiday ruined by having your gifts stolen. Criminals who steal right out of the hands of their victims in places like store parking lots most often target people who are not paying attention or who are multi-tasking. Look around, hold your bags tights, and do not leave gifts unattended in the car for long periods of time.

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How to Attract the Woman of Your Dreams - 3 Tips You Need to Know

Guys know that we all have a "dream" image of the kind of woman that we want to attract. When you are young, you actually believe that you will one day be able to attract this kind of woman. As you get older, you start to set your standards much lower and you lose that belief that you can and will attract a beautiful woman. Maybe a few rejections changes your perspective, or you just cannot seem to see yourself with a sexy girl. The thing is, this kind of thinking really will prevent this from happening.

Here are three tips that will help you to attract the woman of your dreams:

1. Set your standards higher. I know, this makes me sound like a jerk to some people, but you have to do this. Otherwise, you really will settle on whatever kind of woman that you believe that you can attract. When you set a higher standard for yourself, you will begin to gain the confidence to approach beautiful women. Of course, this will raise the odds that you DO get that sexy girl you want.

2. Become comfortable joking with women. Using your sense of humor can easily take the edge off and it can actually work wonders for your ability to attract a woman's attention. If you have her laughing, then she is definitely feeling good about you. Keep that up and make sure that you stay away from the "goofball" kind of humor.

3. Show her your "bad boy" side. Every woman wants to see a little bit of edge in a man. You have to be able to show her your bad boy side if you want her mind to go crazy when she thinks of you. The funny thing is, you don't even have to be really all that "bad." Just having an alpha male quality about you is usually more than enough.

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How to Use Deflection Theory to Seduce Women

What happens when you want to play the artist in the seduction game? That is, when you’re searching actively for a girl you’d like to hook up with? I have experienced it many times, and more men in thousands are still experiencing it today when they themselves are out playing the game. This is how it happens normally. When in a group with a couple of girls, taking lunch, having a drink or in a party, you may happen to set your eyes on one particular girl. You feel that you should make something happen between the two of you, that is a little closeness, But then you realize she is hard to come close to her yet she smiles every time you make a joke. She is nice, polite, and looks at you straight in the eye yet she does not talk to you directly, know for sure that you should start using the infamous deflection theory on her.

Does this happen because she doesn't like you or because you are not her type, no! There must be a reason, a very special reason, something to do with psychology and the social set up that you two happen to be. You see when you suddenly express interest in this girl as good looking as she may be, you are in actual sense imploring her ego and her self esteem and actualization. One thing is for sure, she knows you have identified her already and that you are interested in her. At this point in time she feels great and elevated to a higher level that the friends she is accompanying. What she knows is this. If she reciprocates the interest and flirts with you, her friends might notice these and she might lose the position of importance she might have gained, she therefore maintains "am too hard to get" stand. But you know your mission has to be accomplished, that is, to get her!

In this case, i would advise you to use the deflection theory to solve this problem. Turning this situation involves finding something else that you can concentrate on, thus turning your attention from her, effectively lowering the psychological high level she had put herself on. You can do this by concentrating on one of her friends instead. This is deflection theory at its best. This is the best way to challenge he ego, give her friends even more attention and concentration and the girl you are interested in will start to fight, albeit subconsciously to regain her elevated position, she might start being more playful and attentive. She could even start flirting with you. I have been in this situation, so i know. She feels she cannot have you so she fights for you the more. Deep inside yourself you know she is the hottest of the group and its her that you want. Using deflection theory challenges her so much that she feels a strong desire to win back your attention. This is all what you had all along wanted.

This is how deflection theory works in a nutshell: Using eye contact when chatting to all of the girls. But, when chatting to your target girl, glance away occasionally to one of the other ladies and give a faint smile and then look back at your girl. This starts an urgent sense of competition in the mind of the girl that you are really interested in. This makes her fight for your attention. Or you could make some physical contact with one of her friends by touching the top of her folded knee, then retracting back. But you have to be careful in this one. I would not want you to lose the war.

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